Hello, fellow Kanakuk alumni. It’s Your Enneagram Coach, Beth McCord. I grew up going to K-1 and K-2 from 1982-1990 (3rd term). In fact, I became a Christian in the summer of 1982 when Richard Beach shared the Gospel message during an evening Gospel-talk event at Kanakomo’s outside church. While sitting on the stone benches, overlooking Tanykomo under the night sky, I knew I needed a Savior. The relief to know Jesus saved me was an amazing realization. It brought great joy to my heart then, and it continues to do so today. I am immensely grateful for all the years I had at Kamp to learn about Jesus and grow in my faith. 

Fun fact: Jamie Jo Barner and I grew up in the same cabin all those years. We were even mini-princesses together (Jamie Jo was the Kiowa mini-princess and I was a Kickapoo mini-princess). We battled it out that summer to see our tribe win the term. It was an amazing summer (For the record, the Kickapoos got the final victory!). 

Over the years, my faith and desire to share the Gospel with others so they might see radical transformation their lives grew deeper within me. For years, I got to witness others grow in their relationship with Christ as a pastor’s wife, but in 2015, God directed me to help others grow and transform in a new and unique way. I started my own coaching business, Your Enneagram Coach, with the mission to help people explore the Enneagram, see themselves with astonishing clarity, and break free from self-condemnation, fear, and shame by knowing and experiencing the unconditional love, forgiveness, and freedom they have in Christ. We carry out this mission by using the tool of the Enneagram to bring deeper understanding of who we are, the intricate way we were created by God, and our true identity and purpose as His cherished children. 

I want to share with you, my fellow Kanakuk alumni, about why I take a Christ-centered approach to the Enneagram. This ancient symbol has been around for thousands of years, and people have interpreted it in many different ways. In fact, when I was first introduced to the Enneagram back in 2000, there was only one Christian Enneagram book in existence! We are blessed that today there are a few more Gospel-centered Enneagram resources.

Why do I think it’s so important to approach the Enneagram with our faith in Jesus front and center? I’m glad you asked! To be honest, without grace, the Enneagram would be downright depressing for every Type, because this tool illuminates our hearts’ intent. While it reveals each of our strengths, motivations, and heart longings, it also reveals our core fears, weaknesses, insecurities, and sin tendencies. Those parts are not so flattering, acting as our Achilles’ heels and causing pain and frustration in our hearts and relationships.

As an Enneagram Coach, I could guide you in how to discover your Type, accelerate your growth, and move forward with integrity and knowledge until we’re both blue in the face, but the only reason any of my tools and truths work is because of Jesus and what he did for us. It’s not enough to know our personalities and why we do the things we do without heart transformation, and that only comes through the perfect, completed work of Christ. In short, we have to know not only who we are, but also whose we are in order to experience true growth and freedom.

Who Am I?

Through His Word, God shows us time and again that he deeply cares about our hearts’ motives. That’s why we use the Enneagram to look not just at our external behaviors, but also our interior worlds. In Mark 7:1-23, the self-righteous Pharisees believed that if they ingested uncleanliness from the outside it would make them unclean, or corrupt, on the inside. But Jesus pointed out that what is unclean is already inside of each of us, our sinful hearts. As Pastor Matt Chandler put it, “You don’t do sinful acts that make you a sinner. You’re already a sinner, so you do sinful acts.”

Matthew 15:18 says, “but what comes out of the mouth proceeds from the heart, and this defiles a person.” We must realize that the heart of our problem is the problem of our heart! The role of the Holy Spirit is to reveal truth, both the wisdom of God’s Word and our need for Jesus Christ. As we “walk in the Spirit,” we participate in transformation. We can fall into the same error as the Pharisees if we only focus on obeying externally without understanding our hearts.

Whose Am I?

Once we have received Jesus as our Lord and Savior, we are in Christ, making us his Beloved sons and daughters and heirs to His throne. When we know that we’re all made in His image, we can explore the amazing variety of personality types he gave us with grace and forgiveness instead of shame and condemnation. The Enneagram is a powerful tool we can use to better understand ourselves and others, and view life in a more meaningful way. But it’s only through finding our identity in Christ that we’ll experience true freedom in everyday life and relationships.

The Enneagram and Gospel Hope

I believe that once we know ourselves more intimately, we will be able to understand the Gospel in deeper and richer ways. The Enneagram can help us hear the Gospel and its truths in our “mother tongue,” or our personality Type’s language, helping our heart to better receive it. This brings tremendous power to our walk with God! I have been on this Enneagram journey for nearly 18 years now, and I continue to find beauty and experience transformation as I look at myself and others through a Gospel lens.

My prayer for you is that you will first know, believe, and trust in your identity in Christ. In Him, you are completely forgiven and set free. When God looks at you now, he is satisfied by Christ’s finished work and He sees His most cherished child. This knowledge will radically change you and spill over into all your relationships.

I also pray that as you explore the Enneagram, you’ll see yourself with astonishing clarity and break free from self-condemnation, fear, and shame because of the unconditional love, forgiveness and freedom you have in Christ. I hope you will see how apart from Christ, each personality Type is controlled by their Core Motivations. They are running away from their Core Fear, running towards their Core Desire, stumbling over their Core Weakness, and desperately thirsty to hear their Core Longing.

When we’re not resting in the Gospel, we think, feel, and behave in particular ways that harm ourselves and others. But by the grace of God, we can ask the Holy Spirit to help us navigate our internal worlds and bring our personality Types back to their healthiest paths. God reveals to us, both in knowledge and experience, the transformative work of the Holy Spirit in our lives. As the Gospel penetrates our hearts, we can find soul refreshment despite any of life’s burdens or trials.

Ready to dive in? I’d love to guide you on your Enneagram journey! I offer multiple online courses, events, and private coaching to help you explore the depths of your Type and become the best version of yourself. My suggestion is to take the first step and start with my Discovering You course, which will teach you what the Enneagram is, how to use it, and an overview of all 9 Types from a Gospel-centered lens. Then once you know your main Type, jump into my Exploring You course, which breaks down your Type into bite-sized lessons that are easy to understand and brings accelerated transformation that you are looking for. I even offer a certification course that will train and you to become an Enneagram Coach yourself, equipping you to make a lasting impact on others. Learn more at YourEnneagramCoach.com. 

Beth McCord, Enneagram coach, speaker and founder of Your Enneagram Coach

Beth can be found online at:

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